How to make new friends as an adult

Sam Richards
Authored by Sam Richards
Posted Friday, May 3, 2019 - 7:12am

Making new friends can be much harder when you are an adult. It is easy to make friends when you are a child and teenager but this all changes once you start to work full-time and have long-term relationships. Additionally, if you move to a new area or go through a breakup, you may find that you suddenly have much fewer people to socialise with which can be difficult. Fortunately, it is possible to make new friends when you are an adult if you know how and if you are willing to put yourself out there. Here are a few ways to try if you are looking to make new friends.

Use the Internet

Internet dating has completely transformed the way in which people meet each other for romantic relationships, but it can also be used to make new friends. You can find like-minded people in your area through online communities and there are meetupsorganised where you all go and enjoy a shared interest together, such as going to a museum or for a walk.

Join a Club

Joining a local club is also a fantastic way to meet new people with shared interests. There are always clubs, teams and local appreciation societies to join and these can be great fun and give you something to do in your spare time.

Learn Something New

Similarly, learning something new can be highly social while also giving you a new hobby for your spare time. Learning a new language, musical instrument or taking a fitness class will help you to meet people each week and give you a common ground to talk about.

Go to Pubs Alone

It can be intimidating, but going to the pub by yourself is a great way to make new friends. The pub is where people go to unwind and socialise, so it is an area where people are at their friendliest and most welcoming. The best gastro pubs in Surrey are ideal for making new friends as there is always a great atmosphere, a wide range of drinks, delicious food and much more.

Get a Dog

Getting a dog is a great idea for those looking to make new friends because they can provide company, but they are also a way of meeting new people. When you walk your dog every day, you are sure to encounter fellow dog owners, and this will give you something that you can talk about. Additionally, many people love dogs so if you have yours while out and about - such as at the pub - then you will be amazed at how many people come up to you and strike up a conversation.

Making new friends is much harder when you are an adult, but everyone needs a good group of people to socialise with in their spare time. It can be intimidating and push you outside of your comfort zone, but the above are all great ways to meet new people, have some fun and hopefully make some great new friends.

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