How to Choose the Perfect Cremation Urn for your Loved One

Claire Small
Authored by Claire Small
Posted Sunday, May 3, 2020 - 8:46am

For many years, cremation has been a common practice. It involves burning the body of a deceased individual and preserving their remains in a container usually known as an urn. Depending on traditions and the wishes of the dead, cremation ashes may also be scattered in the sea or sometimes preserved in certain objects after the funeral service. During the process, the casket is taken into a closed furnace, and at very high temperatures; the body is burned and pulverized to ashes. More often than not, people who are cremated indicate this as a death rite in their will before their demise, and in most cases; their remains are stored in an urn, which the bereaved are left with to keep a warm memory of their departed love. This means that when sending a loved one through cremation, choosing a good urn becomes one of the most important tasks.

However, cremation urns come in many different shapes and sizes. As you can see on this website, there are various types of cremation urns, including themed, wooden, photo urns, and keepsake urns, among others. Once you have a range of options to choose from, picking the perfect one becomes easier. 

All the same, here are a few things to consider when choosing a perfect urn for your loved one.

Cost

First and foremost, one of the things you’ll need to consider is the urn’s cost. Despite your preferences, your pocket has a say as far as your choice is concerned. As much as you want to get a quality urn for your loved one, it’s important to save a penny where you possibly can. There’s no need to pay more than you must and to avoid this, doing some window shopping before the actual purchase can help you compare prices from various providers so you can get the best deal.

Size

We all love to buy something of size. Not too big, not too small. In this case, cremation urns are measured in cubic inches. You will thus want to consider the bodyweight of the deceased because it will be a determining factor of the size of the urn. The size of the urn also determines where you will place it. It can also be customized to the size of your preference. When shopping, you simply have to factor in the capacity and dimensions of your pick.

Intended Use

After the cremation process, the family may choose to keep, bury, or scatter the ashes. When burying, you will need to get an urn that will be durable enough to stand all weather conditions without breaking. If you’re keeping it somewhere, you may need something catchy, attractive, and durable enough to stand the test of time. If, on the other hand, you choose to scatter the ashes, it’s best to go for a temporary and cost-effective urn.

Material

While it’s mostly a matter of preference, the choice of material highly depends on the intended use. For instance, there’s no need of getting a wooden urn and you have intentions of burying the ashes since it will rot over time and all will be meaningless. In this case, you can opt for a stone urn, like marble or granite instead. By material, urns vary from metal, wood, stone, and ceramic options.

Design

Urns can be customized to the deceased’s liking. They come in different themes and designs. As a loved one of the departed, it’s best to get a cremation urn that reminds you of the deceased. To get the perfect design, you may have to ask yourself a few questions. For instance, what was his favorite color, sport, music, animal, or book? Do you have a phrase in mind that you would associate with the life and spirit of the departed? You can also have their name engraved on the urn or even have their favorite photo on it. It could also be anything they had a close attachment with while alive.

It is always believed that cremation is for the rich. This could be a debatable and arguable fact, but in most cases, cremation is common amongst political leaders and celebrities. It may be a publicity stunt for some because many of them have also been buried normally. All the same, what matters most is giving the departed individual a proper send-off… one that resonates with their dying wishes. The above are just a few factors you should consider when getting the perfect urn for your loved one’s cremation.

 


 

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